Ok! Cool! I was afraid of it... So, let`s try to do it following way:
1. Change cables between synchronization NICs
2. Don`t use switch there, only direct connection
3. If broken headers would continue to appear - try to use any other 3d party NIC - Intel, Broadcom, Realtek - whatever.
4. If you steel have broken headers - disable ToE, iSCSI offload, etc.
5. If you steel see problems - call to HP or Dell, problems are on their side
We have faced with such problem some times, and we found that on sime kind of HP`s hardware and drivers for NICs headers are really often broken, and StarWind receive broken packets, and not breaking it
