There is a small thing we may be missing here. Did you enable the "allow multiple concurrent iSCSI connections" checkbox when creating the target?
This should be visible in the SW management console
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If clustering is off - delete the target, choose "detach device" option, then create a new target with clustering enabled, right click over the device and attach it to the new target. After that do a full rescan on the ESX hosts.